lithium prices 2012 ampicillin online buy side effects of alavert d benicar sales actoplus met medication on line zyloprim for daily use canada how to by viagra soft online can you take lisinopril daily to buy atrovent trazodone cost canadian side effects of cardura aurochem laboratories india pvt ltd mumbai how to get glucotrol xl on line buy citalopram online canada no prescription tamsulosin hcl 0.4mg cap picture cialis comprar generico lithium carbonate tablets wiki cost of keflex with insurance atarax from canada nizoral 100mg cheap pink female viagra side effect what is zaditor made of vpxl billig kaufen buy bystolic in canada get rid period pain without pills buy cafergot online india ordering medication price alesse can you buy viagra at tesco cefixime cost canadian duetact rxlist caverta mail order india Purchase paroxetine 20mg reviews on probalan buy alesse uk pharmacy otc allegra cost safe motilium no precription biaxin legal in england can you take norvasc twice daily dog ear infection antibiotics online how much is atarax tablets buy robaxin online us no prescription 100mg ml ampicillin stock reglan rxlist is it safe to buy from mobicity what are the side effects of inderal water pills for weight loss atorlip-5 with paypal payment neurontin 100mg uses cheap lexapro buy online aricept daily use reviews buyers of nexium canada discount canadian pharmacy ponstel seroxat withdrawal success cheap propecia generic betnovate g price in india plendil without a prescription prilosec paypal indocin cheap flomax uk boots online bactroban purchase order cardura can order ventolin online purchase diovan online amaryl generic available finax in croatia buy premarin cream health canada clomid genuine pravachol best price generic combivent malaysia dog medicine without prescriptions haldol injection dosage what doses does atarax come in interactions paroxetine dosage ocd vytorin online calan order is there an over the counter equivalent to bactroban how to purchase desyrel online generic for flagyl medication innovative research tadalafil arimidex now co uk how to get wellbutrin in australia where purchase diflucan lotrisone ships from india discount fertomid roxithromycin tablets for sale dosage for cymbalta for fibromyalgia popular pills online abilify kaufen cialis 10mg how long does it last generic medication for effexor xr cheap ciplox free delivery prescription drug ranitidine fertility treatment options after clomid brand viagra purchase generic astelin in best price rogaine 2 side effects of lasik water pills cozaar tablets hypertension generic vasotec canada actonel tablets 40mg safe place order kytril buy deltasone online canada nolvadex canada free or low cost midamor can order vermox canada watch being erica purim online lithium price per tonne buy finast 100 birth control pills viagra my glyset coupons fastest suhagra uk delivery side effects of generic maxalt prednisone in italian post cycle therapy brand advair diskus side effects prilosec 40 mg generic form of differin metformin overnight delivery zovirax topical cream reviews trileptal western australia retino-a cream 0,025 usa sale hong kong price buy lamictal dispersible viagra sildenafil citrate 100mg is there over the counter prednisone para que se usa el lamisil online claritin india to buy serevent trandate prescription coupon mobic generic cheap costs $10 printable alli coupon citalopram drug class lipitor from atorvastatin buy celexa usa best price ventolin inhaler online generic revatio levitra mexico no prescription best anti anxiety medication pregnancy buy levitra in ireland how to import aciphex aspirin reviews and dosage tinidazole buy low cost cialis professional citalopram hydrobromide in india sale antivert generic aldactone 100mg how often can i take 20mg cialis to buy ginette-35 in uk plavix use in cats sale celebrex what does seroquel xr look like motilium medication review pariet mg order aciphex pediatric dose meridia uk online cost of skelaxin 800 mg zebeta 10 mg cost online ditropan purchase us online pharmacy no prescription hyaluronic acid half price glyset voltaren for men sale in uk buy tamoxifen online india bupron sr not generic can doxazosin mesylate get you high express scripts specialty pharmacy form cipro online company registration how to purchase florinef online what is trazodone hcl 150 mg generic substitute for zithromax can i order voltaren no prescription in the usa cozaar in the uk med cab anafranil how to buy flagyl 500 mg levothroid tablets for sale arimidex com au low cost overnight reglan xeloda tablets capecitabine cheap rogaine foam flagyl er reviews and dosage trihexyphenidyl drug information www pharmacyonline gr buy lasix 80 mg lamisil online terbinafine canada pharmacy prograf by mail cheap oxytrol free delivery cheap pamelor free delivery online generic biaxin zyrtec medication order get plendil toronto alli discount pills approved florinef shop net side effects of zocor in men where to apply nitroglycerin patch best online pharmacy generic vpxl diovan delivery london flomax mail order india keflex generic walmart cheap noroxin india dipyridamole mg no prescription what does tamoxifen do for bodybuilders zyprexa lawsuit settlement zoloft costco where to get septilin pct prednisone medication uses propecia pas cher lille forzest tablet sale revatio generic available combivent australia caverta 100 side effects khawaja naveed ki adalat january 2013 best reminyl prices cialis al miglior prezzo albendazole pharmacy order is there a drug comparative to pyridium buy medicines online australia elocom crema pret styplon medicine children claritin ingredients wiki buy albendazole uk anthelmintic avalide with paypal payment do you need rx albenza plavix limited india prescription free viagra in australia parlodel uses what is ic promethazine 25 mg costco pharmacy online application januvia u.s. sales 2010 pharmacy has best price saw palmetto furosemide direct pharmacy order abana 11 pharmacy discover america advert song atarax to buy in england suppliers of lynoral in us where to buy alligator meat in dallas prinivil price india donde comprar viagra en madrid free printable lexapro coupons amoxil forte 250 mg/5ml dosage roxithromycin for dogs buy is finasteride available over the counter can u take viagra and cialis together pharmacy has best price synthroid bupron sr for sale australia amoxil left out overnight how often to take astelin cialis vs viagra buy online best place to buy viagra online 2013 avandamet pas cher celebrex dose for ra what is periactin medication for clomid prescription coupon generic form of wellbutrin xl 300 doxycycline online overnight canadian best place to order levaquin in us tronchetti provera lista monti levitra super active usa sale viagra150 mexican pharmacy no prescription glucotrol xl luvox cr generic name sildenafilo cinfa less side effects levitra or viagra how to take metformin tablets rhinocort canada head office is generic blopress available in usa zetia and eating grapefruit neurontin generic reviews carafate suspension price buy bupropion without rx stilnox cr 6 25 anxiety uk helpline amoxil canadian pharmacy price why is there a shortage of maxalt buy combivent tablets brand levitra super active buy long term side effects of cytotec hydrochlorothiazide for men sale in uk clonidine online ordering atarax uses side effects best place to order alli in us claritin rx otc elocon ointment 0.1 pregnancy what is the best drugstore waterproof mascara for volume and length order cialis/viagra online para que se usa el nizoral mail order albendazole luvox cr australia swanson water pills review cefixime results forum best price for cialis 2.5 mg order buy chloromycetin pharmacy buspar generic 5 mg buy lipothin 10 viagra soft canada prescription lithium for purchase quais os efeitos do remedio sertralina cheap topamax com discount bactrim ds buy calan verapamil research grade remeron nolvadex on line no script buy cheap generic avodart without actos generic walmart citalopram 40 mg buy metformin pills diabetes orlistat rx list switching from prozac to zoloft buy rocaltrol new zealand online phone in order for abilify zyprexa zydis uk 500 mg dosage valacyclovir hydrochloride all types etodolac pills has synthroid been discontinued free alli diet plan diflucan online consultation orlistat canadian propranolol costco pharmacy store locator benzac ac usa can order chloramphenicol online dosage of prednisone in dogs generic for avapro 150 mg astelin 100 review augmentin pharmacy prices list buy valtrex tablets uk comprar biaxin en argentina does actos cause weight gain where can i purchase requip viagra discount pharmacy yasmin saleh pill drug store drug xenical pharmacy2u generic januvia cost accutane prices canada generic flonase price anafranil generic 2013 drugs order generic ceftin can you split augmentin tablets generic feldene cost cytoxan in the uk now rx lotrisone cream pharmacy that sells zyloprim where is lasix made american trileptal is it illegal to order generic norvasc cheap atorlip-10 uk walmart pharmacy deming new mexico what is bupropion for medication buy parlodel in india online buy exelon from mexico online pharmacy direct usa can we trust shatavari online buy yagara without prescription cytotec for abortion side effects where can i buy primatene mist in canada procardia now lopressor dosage tachycardia order non generic betnovate purchase voltaren mg depakote online buy generic name ditropan canadian pharmacy in ocala florida order astelin online with visa buy moduretic with visa minnesota approved canadian pharmacies over counter meclizine same prescription meclizine online forum zyrtec no rx cardizem discount levitra 2.5 mg tablets what is minomycin used for xeloda order canada glucophage tablets for pregnancy order proventil asthma where to buy terramycin in canada safely cialis jelly refill pack doryx dr 100 mg diclofenac gel prescribing information pyridium where to get order prinivil cheap when is lexapro going to be generic female cialis online meds resources for proventil overseas pharmacy no prescription kamagra is valtrex over the counter in canada cytotec tablets for miscarriage suprax drug oversea zenegra tablets from buy reliable kamagra supplier uk comprar elavil en argentina omnicef 100mg buy generic finasteride buy uk uk meds 4 u viagra online how to use retin a micro gel decadron delivery uk how to use alli effectively clomid false pregnancy symptoms lozol generic 2013 drugs celebrex reviews psoriatic arthritis fluoxetine hydrochloride 40 mg side effects costco pharmacy kamagra gold price levlen ed side effects weight gain order yagara online uk how to treat differin side effects buy alligator clips hair bows crochet cheapest valtrex in the uk diclofenac heumann gel 100 g fast depakote deleviery decadron ivp rate how to tell if your viagra is real lowest priced clozaril asacol pills are coming out whole cheap doxycyllin no prescription is famvir over the counter in australia order free sample of viagra cardura online overnight shipping propecia in the uk now sale buy hyzaar affects zithromax from pharmacy ordering cafergot here in canada lamisil drugstore com cheap us generic compazine online generic of allegra d brand decadron for sale methotrexate spc emc para q se usa el atarax revia uk next day delivery without a script cod cheap alphagan diclofenac without prescription diclofenaco sodico 50 mg laboratorio chile zithromax cost no insurance prescription drug pyridium actos max dose zanaflex barato kytril medication order drug cardura side effects non prescription erectile dysfunction medicine free coupon for seroflo ethionamide pharmacy prices list what does indocin treat can you buy things on ebay with paypal buy vantin online without a prescription brahmi ordering online pharmacy zyrtec rx to otc switch ibuprofen alcohol stomach pain i pill phenergan website viagra order online pharmacy motrin canada overnight delivery relafen 750 uses buy pilex with no rx ditropan canada online no prescription quetiapine-seroquel tablets what does risperdal do for children inderal 10 mg low level pvp gear vendor alliance order tetracycline overnight minocin 100 mg price acyclovir no prescription needed saroten 10mg retard order aciclovir canada order abilify 4mg online arava institute for environmental studies curisafe cefadroxil monohydrate orlistat generic xenical mexico amoxil prescription order coversyl online no presctiption buy shuddha guggulu mexican pharmacies hydrochlorothiazide tablets for sale levitra plus prescription only rumalaya non perscription countries buy accutane overseas how much do lamisil tablets cost what does promethazine do to your body cheap generic stromectol advair diskus sales cost of unisom without insurance detrol for sale zyvox antibiotic linezolid dose buspar to buy in the canada without a prescription acheter livre how much will glycomet cost diclofenac pill shop discount code nitrofurantoin shoppers drug mart viagra nongenaric walmart alliance ne midamor 100 review procardia pharmacy order buy celexa capsules can you buy zovirax over counter australia what is codeine syrup prescribed for kamagra side effects long term rosuvastatin calcium price list of tesco stores selling trimox amoxil shortage 2012 what is doxycycline tablets for cytotec medication hydrochlorothiazide medication overdose vardenafil pharmacy how to buy viagra cialis 5 pas cher side effects of dutasteride buy inderal 100 aygestin supplier in uk lithium batteries western australia 1000 year old ginseng omeprazole 20 mg capsules depo provera trimestral onde comprar viagra generico visa electron plavix dose for cats 50mg or 100mg clomid online forum quality astelin prescription buy cardura online without phentermine 30mg buy online is generic avodart available in usa mestinon timespan rxlist eurax lotion for scabies cipro dose for gonorrhea phenergan prescription dosage shatavari from usa pharmacy walmart-pharmacy-drug-list cheap diflucan fluconazole generic strattera reviews and dosage buy erexin v can we trust kamagra gold online best fertility drugs for pcos where to bystolic side effects of prometrium suppositories during pregnancy proventil hfa 90 mcg inhaler coupon lov cost chloroquine erythromycin australia clonidine suppression test cpt cheap alligator hairclips bulk imiquimod warts time cheapest propranolol tablets uk cost doxycycline tablets uk generic from anacin express care pharmacy in arizona cialis soft ordering online pharmacy Purchase lexapro 10 mg online furosemide canada cost cialis jelly from usa nootropil doctors online canadian health care mall phone number alli slimming tablets ireland hydrochlorothiazide tablets dosage my dutas coupons effects of fluoxetine 20 mg lamictal dosage increase cipralex side effects nhs order differin overnight methotrexate online cheap roxithromycin reviews best place buy celadrin pct buy ginseng seeds uk buy desyrel no prescription fast delivery lotrisone cream tube size bactrim without prescription miami how much will haldol cost how can i get nexium cheap aarp medicare rx plan prior authorization form trental not generic can you buy promethazine over the counter vermox brands india purchase nolvadex on line in mexico doxycycline 100mg x 180 pills augmentin 1000 mg pret generic name for allopurinol aloprim can a woman get a prescription for viagra comprar viagra en irlanda rumalaya pas cher italie etodolac with american express what is himcolin pills used for asthma in children guidelines azithromycin 250 mg z pack buy mobicool canadian pharmacy aspirin caffeine codeine cost of chloroquine without insurance paxil lawsuit 2011 cheapest cialis in australia dilantin pain pills buy cipro online no rx viagra professional buy canada liquid trileptal review buy benemid australia generic adalat mylan prices buy aldactone online from australia bactroban without a perscription blopress mist canada buying actos online there generic drug vytorin generic finasteride buy max dose of claritin per day nexium weight gain rumalaya gel mg tablet python vitamin shoppe review best site to buy penegra buying colchicine online what is pariet drugs costco pharmacy sominex price what is ranitidine bismuth citrate buy flagyl er pills online citalopram birth control pills buy over the counter lynoral online buy isoniazid patch cheapest entocort cost of risperdal without insurance new mexico alliance zanaflex maximum daily dosage amaryl drugs diabetes artane without insurance zyvox estrace discount no prescription fosamax lawsuit settlement amount prednisone dosage for adults with bronchitis kamagra com cape town buying rumalaya liniment using paypal yasmin generic mexico buy livestock buy kamagra cheap online generic viagra how much is clozaril tablets bupron sr india can you take combivent daily low cost overnight capoten stop spam emails canadian pharmacy can you buy sublingual in ireland online drug cialis overnight shipping doxycycline hyclate usage colospa by mail order where to buy atrovent drugs online where to buy viagra canada trileptal discount zithromax dose for strep throat sitios seguros para comprar cialis coumadin without inr cheap antivert usa periactin with no rx qsymia fda label pulmicort next day glucophage dosage for infertility best online pharmacy generic ponstel can you buy lotrisone canadian needs when buy zetia 10 mg can you get high off singulair how to get coreg in australia ophthacare price alli orlistat buy online what is risperdal used to treat periactin uses medication toradol uk boots florinef fda approved to buy without prescription dramamine drug classification walgreens drugstore.com merger fucidin cream what is it for cytotec for sale online vente de seroquel au quebec low cost overnight diovan legal to buy accutane online what is a z pack for a sinus infection albendazole sublingual dosage zithromax pharmacy coupons generic plavix in usa to buy clonidine in uk xenical vendita in italia recommended dose of saw palmetto for hair loss aspirin mg buy trazodone express canada nexium uk boots is there a generic for yasmin birth control cytotec philippines can buy tricor comprare how does the drug xenical orlistat facilitate weight loss in humans lisinopril not generic cialis super active sale generic 20mg how to order levothroid online how long do the initial side effects of citalopram last altace costco generic arjuna buy canada can etodolac 400 mg get you high liv 50mg tablets macrodantin nitrofurantoin 50mg get viagra online prescription ketoconazole side effects where is rita ora from originally one direction get chlamydia female viagra low dose birth control coversyl maximum dosage cialis 100 mg 30 tablet en ucuz buy generic flonase no prescription actoplus met from india normal prednisone dosage for bronchitis how to buy revatio why is there a shortage of lipothin eldepryl online overnight shipping where can i buy domperidone online viagra cialis discount can you take aldactone daily 75 mg elavil no prescription brand leukeran buy genuine doxazosin 100mg buy malegra dxt boots pharmacy long term side effects of cialis professional cialis soft echeck online sale of seroquel can you buy lamictal over the counter in germany aleve shelf life celebrex delivery london can you get pregnant while on depo provera shot what is lithium used for in depression craigslist london uk cars content and code jobs amoxil with no prescription mexico prednisolone limited india where to buy cheap generic atrovent where can i buy hcg for pct list of drugs that have sulfa to buy zerit in uk cheap paxil 100 mg buy abana australia generic actos canada pioglitazone neurontin where can i buy it american flag snapback alli simpson is there a shortage of lasix roxithromycin 150 use get mobic toronto cane you order rhinocort canadian pharmacy glimepiride missed dose celebrex not generic best site buy viagra online adalat over the counter overnight cod is viagra over the counter in spain brand viagra mg uk can i get viagra in morocco aciphex generic release date phone in order for suhagra solu medrol 1000 mg side effects bactroban paypal lopid to buy from europe keflex dosage cellulitis brafix cheap price cialis viagra delivery within usa 2 3 day side effects of lamictal odt generic alternative for flovent buy colchicine online india allegra strategies project cafe 11 topamax 40 mg dose where to buy dramamine for kids generic brand for flagyl cheap hydrochlorothiazide buy online i pill pravachol website arava israel wikipedia permethrin cats side effects is brand levitra legal in uk discount lukol lipitor express canada paroxetine dosage where can i find dulcolax can ranitidine affect birth control pills generic viramune no prescription to buy quibron-t ler revista veja on line where to buy levitra online no prescription drugs citalopram withdrawal mood swings cialis 20mg tablets (tadalafil) buying differin using paypal acai woldwide shipping where coumadin initial factors duracell lithium coupons generic name for beconase aq aciclovir pills generic keflex no prescription how to get high off skelaxin what are ciplox tablets used for zovirax lawsuit settlements what is the drug classification for sinemet robaxin no prescription fast delivery cheap online sale of micronase how to get pain pills out of your system fast side effects of avalide aristocort refill pack buy low advair diskus online current price cialis jelly how much is prometrium without insurance cost of pyridium without insurance buy citalopram tablets uk levitra coupons levitra get free history of performance enhancement drugs in sports purchase abana 10 pharmacy buyers of phexin canada how to take provera to stop period retino ac review buy medrol 40 order pariet cheap lidocaine cream strengths buy aciphex medication what is orlistat and how does it work cheap generic florinef celebrex discount card pfizer buying viagra professional in manchester trimox online usa cheap ventolin australia effexor xr reviews for men what is s and m acheter ephedrine cafeine aspirine desyrel where can i buy it diflucan dosage candida esophagitis tenormin next day generic tadalafil versus cialis what does zantac do to your body zebeta ordering no prescription what can result from an extra sex chromosome genuine alligator skin belt inderal 10mg side effects comprar procardia portugal doxycycline over the counter hoodia dose buy sinequan online without a prescription thyroxine levels low order cephalexin without prescription what is the drug class for colchicine lipothin 20 mg fluoxetine order tylenol and motrin for babies can you buy lopressor online generic order colcrys online fast clonidine delivery does lipitor have a generic equivalent zyvox 60 mg tablets side effects comprar toradol original en madrid viagra sublingual uk next day delivery purim online bestellen viagra soft mail order tetracycline suppliers overseas can i buy alphagan in canada where to buy nexium with visa can you buy erythromycin over the counter 25 mg viagra side effects alphagan coupons estrace 2mg where can i purchase eulexin acquisto viagra jelly sicuro online ketoconazole tablets india ordering glucotrol xl diet pharmacy pharmacy technician jobs in ireland la jolla discount pharmacy ximed buy brahmi online with mastercard oral acne medication minocycline buy antibiotics online uk cheap aciclovir dosage shingles diablo 3 monk stats hell paxil australia pharmacy can you buy prescriptions online order azithromycin zithromax aciclovir tabletas dosis nin~os metformin prices walmart cheap diamox no prescription risperdal legal us pill genuine discount viagra online cialis periactin uk buy drugs atenolol anxiety dose what mg does wellbutrin sr come in foods to avoid when taking thyroid medication capoten 100mg tablet daruharidra online all dosage best mentat prices zyvox without iv doctor;s st davids artane for sale lozol supplier in uk viagra from boots in london discount canadian pharmacy zyloprim mixing aricept and alcohol lasix tablets for weight loss where to buy rogaine 2 ointment can you get carafate over the counter etodolac 400 mg tablet abuse prilosec otc shortage purchase diarex online buy us antivert online canadian we buy any car sales buy nitrofurantoin 80 mg online buy cytotec singapore parlodel 2.5 mg 30 tablet dulcolax pills review buy menosan capsules birth control pills levlen how to order retin-a 0,025 online what is yagara drugs oxytrol prices usa can you buy deltasone online mexico pharmacy diclofenac gel mail order levaquin online digoxin online canadian amantadine from india youtube one man one jar of nutella cheap celebrex 40 mg allopurinol prescription uric acid drugs tamoxifen purchase cheap nolvadex bactrim ds 800-160 dosage for uti taking propranolol and alcohol sinemet tablets from buy tretinoin 0,05 for men sale in uk tadalafil cialis 10mg diltiazem 100mg buy cyklokapron uk online renagel usa sale prinivil generic wikipedia drugs norvasc medicinenet female cialis without prescription canada pharmaceutical sales jobs london lisinopril price without insurance cheap chloroquine tablets trazodone recreational usage benadryl australia diphenhydramine protonix for purchase without a prescription pills that get you high yahoo answers depo provera in italia over the counter version of zofran canadian health care mall cialis buy domperidone in usa omnicef pills drugstore online fincar india compazine medication order order duetact hydrochloride zoot z-pack training bag 2010 list of tesco stores selling lanoxin no prescription allegra sale ortho tri cyclen pharmacy mail order does thyroid medication make you gain weight bupron sr without prescriptions what does too much zoloft feel like order deltasone cheap price olanzapine generic release date buy mestinon online how to use ashwagandha for weight loss best generic procardia review buying alli uk can i get sumycin bayer material science annual report 2010 tinidazole uk buy elimite pills betnovate drug schedule costa rica pharmacy viagra comprar tadalis sx pela internet pain meds fed ex no prescription best place to buy olanzapine quickest terramycin antibiotic eye buy tamoxifen 20 naprosyn precio mexico avalide billig kaufen cvs canada buy serophene tablets online lotensin common side effects youtube stats socialblade where to buy anafranil ointment tegretol no rx when will viagra be available in generic buy xeloda 100 accutane pas cher italie cheap lamisil prescription non persciption aciclovir canadian suprax tablet can you get high on mobic buy erexin-v new zealand online best site get grifulvin v zolpidem tartrate buy online buy levlen birth control medication prescription drug propranolol low cost protonix buy tadalis sx online india propecia buy boots seroflo coupons buy ashwagandha online usa citalopram hydrobromide 10 mg liv overseas types of arthritis list non prescription zyloprim pharmacy reviews on allegra generic proscar switzerland sildenafil 100mg dapoxetine 60mg 60;s how to order reglan buy forzest tablets online cold sore prescription medicine valtrex order generic flovent neurontin dose for neuropathic pain augmentin antibiotic and birth control pills cost of allopurinol without insurance tinidazole generic release date order acivir pills 10 pharmacy compazine no prescription canada rhinocort for men in usa how to get estrace in australia nolvadex 40 mg dose thyroid medication side effects levothyroxine buy genuine mircette uk prescription for cialis purchase buy lady era in singapore otc lansoprazole dose 1000 games for kids free lioresal dosage too high clavamox antibiotic resources for benzac purchasing ralista online uk zestoretic coupons glyset prescription only purchase accutane 15mg online generic form of robaxin does buspar work for social anxiety betneval 0.1 pommade best drugstore powder foundation oily skin buy prilosec online reviews grifulvin v results forum pharmacies buy vpxl tegretol new zealand order online generic buy amitriptyline without acquisto combivent sicuro online generic cialis trial pack pharmacy prescription drug orlistat glucotrol xl uk boots online neurontin purchase fucidin crema a cosa serve most common side effects of nitrofurantoin prometrium pills sweat western drug nymphomax express care pharmacy phoenix lipitor annual sales 2009 buy canada no prescription for beconase aq best pharmacy to order norvasc extendaquin spain exelon power plant sale shatavari online forum lady era order canada hydrochlorothiazide phone orders diovan tablets for purchase best price for vpxl azax 500 ranbaxy side effects non generic vpxl zithromax ordering online pharmacy motilium m uses cat medication prednisolone zofran side effects australia medicine cleocin prilosec mist canada order evecare overnight viagra daily use dosage keppra order online singulair buy without female cialis online coupon code how to purchase levaquin online duphalac overnight delivery is there a drug comparative to haldol clonidine prices at costco buy dilantin boots albendazole 100mg cheap buy tofranil 50 safe buy trandate online genuine cipro generic der kleine nils und viagra generic drug for augmentin procardia drug classification generic proscar manufacturers what are the side effects of ciprofloxacin 500mg tramadol online no prescription canada drugstore makeup brush cleanser metoclopramide 10 mg during pregnancy aspirin medication side effects messi stats 2013 canada zoloft purchase zenegra online legal pain pills online buy mentax uk buy mestinon 60 mg yagara for sale australia kroger pharmacy prices buy cefadroxil new zealand online buy digoxin online overnight best price valtrex dipyridamole pills lov cost quibron-t come comprare cialis su internet erythromycin now co uk top 10 online aygestin sites prescription mobic 5 mg fast kytril delivery best price generic cialis online clomid success rate infertility eurax lotion coupons flovent diskus prescribing information para que sirve el prednisone 20 mg acivir pills medication order kamagra pills online online pharmacy vasodilan prandin tablet sale canada pharmacy prescription drugs grifulvin canada sale can you buy levitra super active in ireland online pill store can you buy femcare prescription clotrimazole prednisolone pharmacies zestril paypal india sumycin price buy danazol without rx micronase generic for can you buy omnicef online levitra no prescription pharmacy cialis buy torsemide generic cheapest atorlip-20 tablets uk benfotiamine dosering serevent uk next day delivery cialis 20 mg 4 tablet fiyat? euro pharmacy liverpool allegra over the counter 1996 periactin pharmacies where to buy nexium with amex colospa lawsuit settlements malegra fxt legal in england where are alligators found in texas reviews on saw palmetto for women india augmentin price pharmacy express corp ontario sinemet order on web cozaar side effects dry cough where to buy cheap generic carafate can you buy ventolin online asacol sales 2010 buy viagra jelly bulk buy liv with no rx comprar zestoretic portugal l-tryptophan pharmacy prices list flagyl alcohol interaction does allopurinol worsen acute gout my alli coupon code canadian pharmacy 24hours citalopram shipping overseas i pill elavil website identifier drug drug classification of erythromycin ophthalmic ointment rabeprazole versus omeprazole gerd zovirax cold sore cream prescription donde puedo comprar cytotec costa rica cheap keflex 40 mg lariam prescription coupon side effects of generic atacand dosage alli in croatia order paroxetine on line canada ampicillin online order can you buy brand advair diskus online list of tesco stores selling anafranil order periactin overnight order paroxetine lowest price how to take finasteride safely sale fertomid where to buy anti depression medication comprar malegra dxt en argentina serratiopeptidase with diclofenac sodium side effects buy apcalis sx uk cheap remeron 100 mg buy medrol 16mg did generic levaquin become available pharmaceutical journal impact factor order neurontin from mexican pharmacy naprosyn buy on line will viagra help with delayed ejaculation sarafem 100 phenamax suppositories buy hydrochlorothiazide 100mg tablet unisom shoppers drug mart cephalexin tablets 500mg what is clomid pills used for sertraline side effects high blood pressure bentyl without insurance how long does it take effexor xr to work buy himcolin boots ordering silagra levitra can i buy nizoral shampoo at walgreens buy zovirax online cheap 1 purchase adalat without pharmacy glyset tablets vente de antabuse au quebec needed order altace without how often to take allegra biomox 100 mg cefixime medicine online purchase retin a micro 0.025 without a prescription tofranil drug classification lamictal side effects mayo clinic www alli co uk forum singulair asthma medication children desyrel drugs generic reviews forum discount viagra free samples salep elocon bayi how much does lamisil cost in canada quinine tablets for restless legs online carafate purchase what does cipro how many remeron does it take to overdose order liposafe online uk cialis 20 mg side effects flagyl er discontinued how much does erythromycin ophthalmic ointment cost what is glycomet gp2 can prednisolone get you high tegretol online ordering buying plavix without prescrition generic purim in usa where to buy orlistat xenical nymphomax without rx fenofibrate costco pharmacy checker canada what does kamagra jelly do best online pharmacy generic sarafem can you order rhinocort aqua effects can you buy bactroban over the counter where to buy live fish online canada discover card buspar and alcohol withdrawal what is ampicillin used for in dogs apcalis sx jelly cialis verified by visa uk generic suprax available where to get lithium orotate levaquin medication interactions prescription abana online escrow refills hcg review ventolin max dose topamax barato cheap indian pharmacy online disfuncion erectil sintomas y tratamientos buy arimidex canada pharmacy lipitor medicine side effects metoclopramide looking for remeron no prescription acquisto flovent sicuro online zentel 400 india buy venlor 80 mg online asacol usa can i buy viagra in tijuana best over the counter hair color for highlights map of medicine low back pain januvia price in egypt cheap pharmacy australia online tadacip india Purchase risperdal 0.25 mg buy tamoxifen citrate generic nolvadex can you buy valtrex drug xenical dubai pharmacy premarin refill pack generic allegra india levitra professional mg usa buy colchicine australia order combivent inhaler plavix medicinenet buy chloramphenicol overseas lamictal online usa no prescription pyridium bonus pills orlistat on the internet can you get aristocort over the counter do you need rx glucophage prometrium 100 review why has cardura been discontinued procardia medication arthritis knee pain haldol wikipedia espan~ol erythromycin medication duration pharmaceutical companies indianapolis indiana is generic minomycin effective nizoral roche precio argentina levitra dosage dose buy lopid boots pharmacy silagra pills sweat where to buy alli weight loss aid where can i buy levothyroxine tablets free shipping cefixime generic cost orlistat 100mg cheap how long does it take for allegra to kick in lisinopril/hydrochlorothiazide no prescription is there a over the counter viagra side effects of atarax drops pulmicort flexhaler coupons petzl myo rxp lithium over counter kamagra gold wellbutrin 100mg sr side effects como tomar omifin culturismo buy canada no prescription for omnicef buy abilify mg med cab sinemet speman overnight generic diltiazem no prescription flonase nasal spray uk ventolin on the internet cialis professional coupon code prilosec for sale online the online drugstore vantin order chloroquine online with visa absolute acai berry sale bupron sr tablets us online canadian terramycin tablet boots pharmacy salary ireland licensed pharmacy betnovate trental 20 mg roxithromycin from mexico overseas pharmacy no prescription atorlip-10 lamictal dose for seizures what is diakof used for safe place order zebeta viagra soft ships from india best site get lotrisone canadian pharmacy silagra baclofen mg tablet antivert dosage motion sickness walmart pharmacy metformin prescription drugs from mexico to us how much benadryl to take for sleep can you get a prescription for viagra at a walk in clinic buy liv 52 without rx chloroquine shoppers drug mart betnovate refill pack generic antivert for vertigo arimidex coupons discounts ephedraxin shop buy snovitra super power with paypal cost of kamagra gold acivir pills by mail online generic cheap online bentyl india lasix 40 mg buy viramune uk brand name l-tryptophan mg tablet dutasteride 0.5 mg avodart lopressor for sale online are there any natural fertility drugs fosamax uk next day delivery actos online purchase can you buy etodolac in ireland cabgolin over the counter mebendazole side effects in children floxin on line for sale no script online pharmacy uk zyvox purchase cabgolin on line in canada prescription drug erection packs 1 betnovate cream what is it used for fast forzest delivery purchase lipitor on line in uk side effects taking viagra alcohol meclizine over counter uk online pharmacy technician certification exam tetracycline tablets to buy ditropan birth control online us esomeprazole magnesium dihydrate flagyl interactions other drugs to buy flovent in uk lasix tablets price hydrochlorothiazide 25 mg tabl buy birth control pill over the counter augmentin in pregnancy for uti zovirax buy online mexico discount bystolic champix and alcohol problems pain pills and alcohol effects omnicef with american express chlamydia symptoms men oral how to by neurontin online where to buy cheap generic emsam can we trust terramycin online what is bactrim ds 800-160 order acai berry max cleanse can you take urispas daily can you buy evecare online toprol xl online order actoplus met generic substitute pioglitazone ventolin delivery uk buy styplon online overnight abilify medication classification buy premarin singapore emsam sold over counter doxycycline dose for lyme disease in dogs trazodone online consultation prednisone from india montelukast asthma uk tadacip maximum dosage buy micardis hct naprosyn dosage for gout seroquel xr dose for sleep avapro cheapest price german remedies ltd. mumbai ordering low dose florinef purchase abana 4 pharmacy side effects of danazol in men american ginseng benefits for children augmentin online pharmacy uk non persciption bupron sr buy kamagra online no prescription united states rx without prescription from usa where is exelon patch metabolized cheap vantin uk retin a for acne dosage lotrisone online sales vasotec tablets abilify costs walmart what is generic for levaquin discount viagra canada generic pills for sale uk buy cialis sports direct clothing try viagra free sample where to buy liver spread getting crestor in australia evista low cost doxycycline capsules acne tamoxifen sale online prescription isoniazid actos comunicativos ejemplos colchicine barato buy online cleocin gel generic where to purchase mentax how long does avapro take to work otc inhaler brands forum buy flonase online membership needed buy actoplus met inhaler canada lipitor side effects in men sinemet for daily use canada citalopram weight gain uk minocycline online overnight celebrex 200mg wikipedia stromectol uk buy amlodipine maleate or besylate raloxifene hydrochloride is it illegal to order generic lithium amantadine no prescription look like pills cheap dapoxetine online sildenafil what is the normal dose of prednisone for bronchitis differin gel for acne reviews ranbaxy lipitor recall furosemide cheap uk pharmacy lipitor prescription information eurax lotion sainsburys can i make atarax accutane pills sweat buy amoxicillin online promethazine generico italiano order synthroid pills buy propranolol 40 mg cipla ltd. baddi contact florinef discount tadalafil ic-351 30ml generic ciprofloxacin hydrochloride ceftin discount is celexa a good anti anxiety medicine can i make rogaine 5 accutane prescription nhs paroxetine 10 mg side effects can i buy amoxicillin in uk effexor xr over counter uk hoodia 9000 usa tinidazole 500mg use where can you buy pain pills online very cheap levitra super active propranolol side effects headache dentist permethrin 5 % suprax side effects rash 50mg kamagra Purchase strattera 18 mg differin where to get lotrisone drug in canada pharmacy buy amaryllis bulbs bulk rosuvastatin on line for sale no script wellbutrin xl coupons discount genuine viagra plus best price what is levoxyl used to treat fml forte spain uti medication cipro dosage liv 52 online usa no prescription trileptal without a script buy tetracycline 500mg prescription cheapest lexapro can you order mevacor coversyl 2mg detrol rxlist actoplus met how to buy a good web page to buy fluoxetine with no script where can i order metformin cleocin 5mg tablets 20mg of prednisone side effects flovent dosage recommended buy brand cialis professional tetracycline brands in india methylprednisolone tablets usp dosepak 4 mg floxin uk online liv 52 donde comprarlo tamoxifen australian customs ventolin with no perscription allegra models mexico himalaya evecare online compare prices depakote penegra over counter uk health canada rumalaya liniment lady era tablets uk singulair prescription medication effexor xr to buy in the uk without a prescription my oxytrol coupons flovent order canada baclofen in the uk now side effects of topamax tingling proventil generic albuterol canadian pet meds no prescription generic periatin buy eurax cream australia medicine actos agency fda warns tetracycline online pay paypal get tretinoin 0,025 las vegas trazodone (desyrel) 50 mg tablet difference between vardenafil levitra cheap meds online no prescription chloramphenicol for purchase best generic elavil sites deltasone 40 mg pharmacy buy zyrtec 100 liquid pariet review wellbutrin sr dosage rx list amantadine sulfate allegra order online femara online buy premarin 20 mg how much aspirin is safe to take daily 1000 nice games purchase generic nizagara buy bystolic bulk brand name betapace online generic plendil uk paypal generic ciproŽ xr sumycin pct buy birth control pills forzest dosage doxycycline dogs lyme disease buy celadrin australia order erection packs 1 levitra prescription buy accutane online canada free shipping buying clomid in manchester cialis or viagra better for women india seroflo price order naprosyn pill mail order generic indocin low alesse drugs ethinyl estradiol cabergoline spc is there a generic drug for celexa albendazole for purchase effects of nitrofurantoin in pregnancy buy provera with visa best site get retin-a ge isoniazid dosage forms acai from canada endep without a prescription from us what is dipyridamole drugs lotrisone brands india female viagra 40 mg dose diclofenac sodium injection india buy cheap online accutane without order provera without rx cialis sublingual sale 5mg canadian lipitor canada prescription dizziness medication meclizine buy lexapro without prescription why has fluoxetine been discontinued buy online brand levitra generic lamisil reviews for jock itch the purple pharmacy algodones fluoxetine on line no script cymbalta cheap price cephalexin order in the us decadron injection for back pain where to get clothes like alli simpson where to astelin israel aircraft industries ltd. arava 201 blopress pharmacy prices list dulcolax reviews uk canadian prescriptions drugs cheap aciclovir 100mg tablets purchase proscar canada renova toilet paper case study analysis etodolac western australia prescription celebrex dosage soft viagra dosage zaditor tablets online where cane i buy trimethoprim antibiotic buy mircette online amazon low dose accutane cystic acne levlen online store cheap paroxetine 40 mg tricare mail order pharmacy form motilium melts best price flovent inhaler prevacid 40 mg dose what is urispas pills used for allopurinol discount coupon prescription dosage of doxycycline for dogs with lyme clomid order buy levothyroxine no prescription generic order elimite infestation synthroid online without prescription can you buy nizoral cream over the counter cheap how much does seroquel xr cost on the street metformin canadian pharmacy danazol mail order normal results for clomiphene citrate challenge test ampicillin dosage recommended levitra super active western australia buy zanaflex tablets india buy bactroban in uk xenical generic cost viagra prescription online us acheter allopurinol pas cher buy nootropil 100 tetracycline low dose birth control vpxl medication buy lanoxin tablets online propranolol next day shipping quiero comprar propranolol actos drug store online florida prometrium generic cialis soft pills how to get aristocort drug best cialis super active prices tadalafil penegra discount what drug is like lexapro nolvadex uk buy generic elimite for sale on line genpharma abra-100 buy liverpool fc tickets 2012 is mail order tricor safe
"Let not your heart be troubled; believe in God, believe also in me" John 14:1
Home arrow The Church arrow Honoring Pastors arrow HOW TO APPROACH YOUR PASTOR ON A DIFFICULT SUBJECT
HOW TO APPROACH YOUR PASTOR ON A DIFFICULT SUBJECT Print E-mail
Written by Kevin L. Howard   

 

An Interview With James Rozmus

Click here for explanation of larger project, "In Honor of Pastors: How to Love and Respect Them"

Also see:

Review of Clouds of Witnesses by M. Noll and C. Nystrom

Academic Wordiness: Humility Meets Clarity

 

[I first met James Rozmus several years ago.  He is a retired American Baptist pastor.  When I initially considered doing this project, I knew I wanted to tap into James' decades of pastoral experience.  We decided the best way to do that was through an oral interview.  I have edited our interview slightly to make it as concise as possible and to make it more appropriate for the eye rather than the ear, since any conversation will sound better than it will look on paper.  I have tried, however, to retain the actual words we used, and have kept the original intent when editing.] 

 

(1). HOWARD: Jim, you were a pastor for more than 30 years, right? 

 

ROZMUS: That's correct.

 

(2). HOWARD: Give me an example of a church member who approached you appropriately on a difficult subject.

 

ROZMUS: I remember a lady who came to see me about the spiritual condition of our church.  She wanted to see something done that would enhance the spirituality of the people.  That ended up being a good interchange.  In fact, while she didn't have any suggestions of what to do, I told her I would pray about it and look forward to coming up with something.  It resulted in a Wednesday night series of meetings on the book Experiencing God by Henry Blackaby. 

 

(3). HOWARD: Was this a difficult subject because she felt you were to blame that the church wasn't more spiritual?

 

ROZMUS: The implication was that I wasn't being the spiritual leader I should have been. And, she knew better than I did what the people needed.  If I'd chosen to take it poorly, we would have had some difficulties.  But, I chose to take it as an opportunity to use her insight to do something constructive.  I'd been thinking about using the Experiencing God material anyway.  I took our conversation as the right timing--someone was already thirsty for a deeper walk with the Lord.  That was a perfect springboard for me to go into action.  In fact, the study was successful and required three groups meeting on the same night to accommodate the numbers.

 

(4). HOWARD: Is it a good idea for members to approach their pastors with several solutions in mind?

 

ROZMUS: It's a good idea, but unfortunately few people will do that.  When I was a chaplain in the Army Reserves, the recommendation was that when you come with a problem, come with three solutions.  And I think it's an excellent idea, but a little idealistic to expect church members to do that.

 

(5). HOWARD: How can members approach their pastor with respect, while at the same time raising a difficult issue?

 

ROZMUS: One of the first things a person should be aware of is that the pastor is a person with feelings too.  And, he can be defensive and taken off guard.  The first thing to do is to pick your time well for both you and the pastor.  If you're the person coming to talk with the pastor, you want that encounter to be relaxed, free of tension, and to have the appropriate time to discuss the matter.

 

(6). HOWARD: So, three days before Easter is probably not the time to suggest your pastor change the overall focus of the church?

 

ROZMUS: That's correct.  Nor should it happen when the pastor is shaking hands with people coming out the door on Sunday morning after church.

 

(7). HOWARD: How important is it to respect pastoral authority and to treat pastors honorably?

 

ROZMUS: It's imperative that people treat pastors with respect--the authority of their position, the authority of their knowledge of Scripture, the authority that comes from the pastor investing his life in serving the Lord and the church.  A pastor doesn't take his job lightly, but thinks constantly how he can be a blessing to God and to the people.

 

(8). HOWARD: I've had people storm into my office and I knew it was war from the beginning because of their body language.  How important is it, when confronting a pastor, to make sure a member's body language and tone are appropriate? 

 

ROZMUS: Let's put it this way, communication is about 85 percent nonverbal and 15 percent verbal.  So body language, gesture, and facial expression communicate more than the words.  I remember a woman, let's call her Barbara, who came into my office years ago and said, "I'M NOT MAD!"  "I'M NOT MAD!"  She didn't know how she was coming across.  So, it was my job to feedback to her what she was saying to me nonverbally.  Now fortunately, it wasn't me that she was "not mad at," but someone else.  On the other hand, in years past, a man we'll call Bob, came determined to beat me into submission to his position of authority on the pastoral relations committee, a committee established by the church to foster good relationships.  But he was using that position to be my boss.  His body language and demeanor instantly put us at odds with one another.

 

(9). HOWARD: How can people show respect with their tone and body language?  Suppose the senior pastor had deeply offended someone, how can the member deal with his emotions appropriately so his body language and tone don't defeat his purpose of being there to find resolution?

 

ROZMUS: The first thing to do is to recognize what the truth is.  When someone is upset, he needs to recognize that and bring it in the open to begin with.  For example, I once went to a lady about my desire for her to leave the church, and that same day went to another lady who had been challenging my authority and creating difficulty.  As I talked with this second person after having experienced the awful pain of confronting the other lady beforehand, I said to this second woman in the presence of her husband, "I've just come from asking someone to leave the church and I'm hurting inside, which may affect everything I'm saying to you."  So acknowledge your emotions when approaching your pastor.  If you're not upset when you come to see the pastor, that's fine.  If you are, then say so and speak softly.  Say something like, "I want to work on our relationship even though I'm really upset right now."  I remember a guy, who we'll call Steve, who came to see me 25 years ago.  He was upset about something but wouldn't tell me what it was.  He was soft in tone, but he beat all around the subject.  When we finally got to the issue, he was upset because I'd allowed the youth of the church to bring drums and tambourines into the Sunday evening service.  He said it grated on his ears.  I told him it grated on mine too. And I didn't like it either, but allowed it because the youth of the church matter to us.  Then I asked him, "Steve, are you mad at me?"  He said, "No, you're my pastor."  I said, "That's not what I asked you.  Are you mad at me?"  He fumbled around a little and eventually said, "Yes, I'm mad at you."  I said, "OK, now let's talk about it."  So we talked about it and reconciled our differences on the subject.  He felt he was heard and understood.  His position wasn't too far from mine.

 

(10). HOWARD: I suppose one thing people might do if they feel they're so red hot about an issue, is to take someone else into that meeting with them to help hold them accountable so it doesn't just become a screaming match.  If a wife takes her husband or someone takes a friend, not to gang up on the pastor, but to have that other person there as a witness to prevent the member from ripping the pastor to shreds.  Do you think that's a good idea?

 

ROZMUS: It's an excellent idea and follows the Matthew 18 principle.  The thing you want to be careful about when taking someone else in to confront the pastor, don't surprise the pastor with the second person.  Because when we come to the Matthew 18 principle, having a second person there to confront another is not the first step listed.  According to that passage, first you go by yourself to talk with the offending or sinning person.  If you can't reconcile, you bring another witness.  If that doesn't work, the third step is to let the whole church in on the subject, and if the church speaks against the sinning person, then the person will be dismissed from the church.  So there's always some implied threat in bringing that second person.  But if a member talks to the pastor in advance and says, "I'd like to bring somebody with me so that he or she can moderate the conversation and hold me accountable," then that's an entirely different subject matter, and that's wise to do.

 

(11). HOWARD: What does it do to a pastor when a member questions his leadership inappropriately?

 

ROZMUS: It immediately puts us on the defensive.  Again, this gentleman named Bob on the pastoral relations committee made a statement to me like, "I don't consider a pastor any different than anybody else."  What he was saying was, "You have no spiritual authority beyond anybody else.  I do not hold your position or you in any kind of respect."  By saying this, he instantly declared himself to be my opponent, and we never got over that in the three and a half years I pastored that church.  He was always my opponent.  I knew it; he knew it; other people knew it.  It ended up dividing the church even further than it was already. 

 

(12). HOWARD: There's an inappropriate way (manner in which confrontation is done) to question a pastor's authority and then there's the way to question a pastor's authority too much--like someone who always needs to have sit-downs with the pastor.  Can you think of an example of someone in the past 30 years, who questioned you too much?  Perhaps you felt like you had to spend too much time dealing with his personal issues that he was making your issues.  Has that ever happened?

 

ROZMUS: No, not in that way.  I've had people who served on boards and committees who wanted to dialogue with me a lot and wanted to talk over coffee.  But I considered that positive and constructive.  I've never had anyone do that on a negative basis.

 

(13). HOWARD: I don't think it has happened to me either, but I know of one pastor who's had to sit down with a member or two on a regular basis.  These ladies were constantly upset and always had something they needed to clarify.  I suppose that's better than gossiping behind the pastor's back, but at some point, approaching the pastor to talk over an offense can become a control issue itself--always having to sit down with a pastor can be a way of putting the pastor in his place.  I suppose someone could use confrontation as a manipulative tool rather than a source of reconciliation.  It's fine that you hadn't experienced that. 

 

How did troublesome members affect the church when they continued questioning your authority or questioned it inappropriately?  How did it affect your ministry with the church, and how did that person's continual questioning you, or questioning you inappropriately, help or hurt the church?

 

ROZMUS: Basically, it hurts a church's unity and puts the pastor squarely in the position of having to assert his authority, which can sometimes negatively affect the church.  When a pastor brings up the subject matter of a disgruntled person's actions, other members might interpret the pastor's remarks as a personal attack.  The disgruntled person has his loyal fans as well.  Chances are the disgruntled person isn't acting alone, and his behavior can provoke the pastor to suspect other members.  For me personally, it made me a little suspicious of what the disgruntled person's objectives were and who he was influencing.  And anytime you get a pastor feeling anxious, it blocks some of his creativity and spontaneity that he needs when he's dealing with people and proclaiming God's Word.  Anytime you're on the defensive, it blocks some of your own internal confidence.  So my confidence was shaken too.

 

(14). HOWARD: Sometimes members don't realize the consequences from confronting the pastor inappropriately, especially if it's on a continual basis.  But even one time is too much if done inappropriately.  An inappropriate confrontation can wreak substantial damage upon a pastor, his family, and the church.

 

ROZMUS: It can have awful consequences.  In terms of this man Bob, when he challenged my authority and my leadership right from the very beginning, I remember responding to him, "Listen Bob, the church constitution says it takes 2/3 of the people to vote me out of here and only 1/3 of the people to keep me here.  In terms of the process of firing a pastor, that's a strong position for me to be in."  As I look back on that conversation, I probably shouldn't have said that because there was a campaign to try to get the constitution changed while I was still pastoring that church. 

 

(15). HOWARD: Sometimes members don't realize that when they inappropriately bring their controversy to a pastor, they're dealing with his career and his family.  Members don't often realize that for them as members, their confrontation is extra curricular activity, but for the pastor, it's his livelihood.  Pastors take this kind of stress home with them at night and these issues could affect their family, career, and health.  It's not like a pastor can just turn it off at the end of the day.  I don't know many pastors who are good at turning the church problems off at the end of the day and leaving the controversy at the office.

 

ROZMUS: I don't know of any pastors either who can do that.  Certainly I couldn't do it.  It resulted in many sleepless nights, waking up the next morning feeling exhausted, not being at my best.  And I felt a constant sense of dread or anxiety that the church would be upset to the point where it would be impossible for me to continue ministering there.

 

(16). HOWARD: That's a strong word of encouragement for people to love their pastors even when members disagree with their leaders.  Church members need to understand that their pastors are human too, and members need to respect their pastors like they would treat someone else in authority.  Even though our culture has difficulty respecting authority, Christians should approach their pastor as an authority figure in a way the member would want to be approached on a difficult subject. 

 

ROZMUS: That's precisely it.  I liken it to a marriage--love your wives, husbands, because if you do, you're going to get the love back.  But if you give out anger and resentment, you're going to get that back as well.  I remember talking to a dear lady who was one of my best friends when I pastored in Arizona.  She was after the hide of the pastor who followed me.  So I said to her, "The best thing you can do for yourself is to love your pastor.  You'll have the most influence on him; you'll bless the church, and you will reap the benefits of that."  Unfortunately, she didn't take my advice and created a lot of hardship for the pastor.  He ended up eventually leaving the church and that church took years to get over that hardship, if it ever did. 

 

(17). HOWARD: What you said reminds me of the last part of Hebrews 13:17, which says regarding church leaders, "...obey them so that their work will be a joy not a burden for that [burden you would create] would be of no advantage to you."  So it really doesn't help you or the church, if you're a discontented member, to attack the pastor to his face or to attack him behind his back.  It ultimately ends up defeating you, if you really love that church.  And if you're really a member of God's family, it's going to hurt you and that local body of believers.  So if a person cares about the church family, he must do what's best for his pastor in the situation too, like you were saying, Jim.

 

ROZMUS: Amen!  I couldn't have said it better myself.

 

Click here for the chapter, "Learning How to Follow Your Leader"

 
< Prev   Next >
 

 

Home    Site Map    About NNF    Search    Contact Us    Statement of Faith

 

Theology and pop culture from a conservative evangelical perspective.

 
Joomla Template design by RocketTheme